Stationary vs. Stationery

If you're knee-deep in wedding planning, chances are you're browsing Pinterest, emailing vendors, and making lots of lists—and somewhere in all that, you've probably typed the word stationery. Or was it stationary?

Believe it or not, this tiny spelling difference trips up so many people. As a wedding planner, I see the mix-up all the time—and while autocorrect might not catch it, your guests (and your printer!) just might. So let’s clear it up once and for all!

What’s the Difference?

• Stationery (with an “e”) refers to paper goods and writing materials—think wedding invitations, save-the-dates, custom thank-you notes, and elegant envelopes.

• Stationary (with an “a”) means not moving or staying in one place. For example: “The ceremony arch will remain stationary during the vows.”

Here’s a quick trick to remember it:

Stationery = Envelope
If it relates to paper, think of the e for envelope!

Why Does It Matter?

When you're planning a wedding, you'll probably be talking a lot about your stationery. From choosing your invitation suite and RSVP cards to designing matching menus and place cards, stationery plays a huge role in your wedding’s first impression.

But imagine emailing a custom designer or printer and asking about “stationary options.” It could create confusion—or at the very least, distract from your beautifully curated vision.

As a wedding planner, I help couples navigate all the little details that make a big difference. Getting the spelling right may feel small, but it reflects your attention to detail—and that’s what a polished, personal celebration is all about.

Common Wedding Stationery Items You Might Need:

• Save the Dates

• Invitations

• RSVP Cards

• Envelopes (with or without liners)

• Ceremony Programs

• Seating Charts

• Place Cards or Escort Cards

• Menus

• Thank You Cards

(And yes—if you need help organizing all of this, that’s what I’m here for!)

Final Thoughts

So, next time you’re searching for wedding paper goods or emailing a vendor, make sure you're using the right spelling: stationery with an “e.” It’s a small detail, but in the world of weddings, the details matter.

And if spelling still isn't your thing—don’t worry. I've got your back with everything from invitation timelines to etiquette tips. Let’s make your big day beautifully coordinated—right down to the envelope flap.